Five things lesbians should know about gay sex

Anal sex, done properly, is not painful. You should try it!

Yes, that first minute can be overwhelming, but think of anal sex like the anti-bullying slogan, "It gets better." And boy does it. We recommend you give it a go. If you've got a partner, try it alone first. Not all men use anal cleansing products — things aren't always THAT perilous — but you're guaranteed clean fun if you do. If you can convince your partner, the best prep is a rim job followed by an ungodly amount of lube (though some brave gay men prefer it dry). Go super-duper slow, push into the pain and learn to enjoy the ride!

Johnny Drago and Julian Modugno have been dating a year and now live together in a tiny studio apartment that is lined with books on nearly every wall.

Both are prolific writers and can be regularly seen at many of Atlanta’s numerous writing events sharing their craft. They also pursue their own creative projects — Johnny as an actor, Julian as a filmmaker — which gives them plenty to chat about over dinner.

They are also both quite fond of puns during their sexy times together — which seems to be a bit over the top.